At this point I would like to refer to that smelly waste material that
large bovines excrete from their bowels. Because, like so many truisms, this
one simply isn’t true. It is abundantly self-evident that taking too much care
can have very negative consequences.
It’s very dangerous to be in a vehicle on the road. I would be much
safer if I never placed my backside in a car or any other form of motorized transport.
However, the inconveniences and difficulties that would arise in my life (and
the lives of those around me) were I to follow this path would far outweigh the
risks I take by being on the road. We make the less careful (but more sensible)
choice almost every day of our lives.
Eating is very dangerous. Anything I eat may poison me (accidentally or
through the malice of others) or choke me. I never know for certain that the
food I am about to eat is entirely free of contamination. However, if I choose
never to eat again, I could possibly be accused of being ‘too careful’. Until I
no longer have any need of food at all.
These are clearly trivial examples. They do demonstrate, however, that we
can, indeed, be too careful. The point is that there are forces everywhere
urging us to err (too far) on the side of caution.
Billion dollar industries are built out of making us fearful. Insurance
is a perfect example. We are educated and indoctrinated to be terrified of all
the unforeseen events that could overtake us. Fear makes us take out that unnecessary
extended and more comprehensive warrantee. We put up signs everywhere warning of
dangers… and protecting us from the vague and insubstantial fear that we might
be sued if something goes wrong and we didn’t have a sign in place.
Governments, the military, and security services thrive on our fears and
insecurities. This is a form of terror-ism. ‘Better to be safe than sorry’ is
their other motto. No. Sometimes it’s better to be sorry. We expend too much
energy and resources on preventing ‘bad things’ from happening… and have little
left in the tank when they continue to happen anyway, despite our efforts. ‘Prevention
is better than cure’ is another ally. Yes, sometimes it is. But sometimes the
steps taken to prevent something of low likelihood from happening are far more
burdensome and restrictive in the long term than the ‘something’ we are seeking
to prevent.
None of these sayings is absolutely and invariably true in all
circumstances. Nevertheless, they can be used in the name of protecting me from
any number of nebulous threats. They can be used to sell me all kinds of
unwanted goods and services.
The other side of ‘being careful’
is the delusional belief we maintain that we can make the world safe. No matter
how much care we take, accidents will continue to happen; unexpected calamities
will still strike. From this point of view we can never be careful enough, that’s
true. We can never be so careful that we will exclude the possibility of
anything bad and unforeseen from occurring. Someone will always be able to
appeal to the fear that resides in that crack between ‘safe’ and ‘unsafe’.
I refuse to live in the sphere of fear within which insurance companies,
governments and other agencies seek to envelope me. I will take some care. I
will take sensible and necessary precautions (as determined by me). I will, for instance, continue to
look both ways when I cross the road, and make every effort to avoid putting bleach
in my tea rather than milk. I will, however, be very careful not to be too careful.